Quote of the Week

The most important thing in life is to stop saying “I wish” and start saying “I will.” Consider nothing impossible, then treat possibilities as probabilities.
-- David Copperfield

Quote of the Week

"You can’t lead the people, if you don’t love the people. You can’t save the people, if you don’t serve the people."
-- Cornel West, Professor at Princeton University


Many of us have aspirations to be leaders in our field of work. Research shows that the best leaders and managers, are those that empower their employees through respect and understanding. Bosses that serve their employees, easily gain their employee's respect, admiration and loyalty. As you climb the ladder of success and work with a variety of individuals, never forget those keys to leadership.

Money Talks

Too often people choose careers based entirely on the amount of money they could possibly make. In today's society, money is important. It is crucial that we have a stable income and can provide for ourselves and our families. But, we really have to remember the important things in life. I read the Chinese Proverb below and it really seemed to put things in perspective. When you choose your career because it is something you love and have a passion for, you will be successful!

"With money you can buy a house, but not a home.


With money you can buy a clock, but not time.


With money you can buy a bed, but not sleep.


With money you can buy a book, but not knowledge.


With money you can buy a doctor, but not good health.


With money you can buy a position, but not respect.


With money you can buy blood, but not life.


With money you can buy companionship, but not love." -A Chinese Proverb

Starting 2009 off right

The other day I received a forward from a friend. I usually delete all forwards even before I read them, but for some reason, I read this one. Actually, I'm glad I did. I thought I would share it with you as we start 2009. Let me know what you think!

40 Tips for A Powerful New Year

1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. And while you walk, smile. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day. Buy a lock if you have to.

3. Buy a Tivo (DVR), tape your late night shows and get more sleep.

4. When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement, "My purpose is to _______________________ today."

5. Live the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, Empathy.

6. Watch more movies, play more games and read more books than you did in 2008.

7. Spend more time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.

8. Make time to pray. It provides us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

9. Dream more while you are awake.

10. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less foods that are manufactured in plants.

11. Drink green tea and PLENTY of water. Eat blueberries, wild Alaskan salmon, broccoli, almonds, and walnuts.

12. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13. Clear your clutter from your house, your car, your desk and let new energy into your life.

14. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

15. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

16. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a college kid with a maxed out credit card.

17. Smile and laugh more.

18. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

20. Don't take yourself too seriously. No one else does.

21. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

22. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present or the future.

23. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

24. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets and wear your fancy clothes. Don't save it all for a special occasion. Today is special.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you!

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"

27. Forgive everyone of everything.

28. What other people think of you is none of your business.

29. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

30. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

32. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

33. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

34. The best is yet to come!

35. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

36. Do the right thing!

37. Call your mother and father often.

38. Each night before you go to bed, complete the following statements: "I am thankful for _______________." "Today I accomplished _________________________."

39. Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.

40. Enjoy the ride. Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don't want a fast pass. You only have one ride through life so make the most of it and enjoy it! It could end at any time!

Stepping Out...Dress for Success

When preparing for an interview, what you wear can say a lot about your level of professionalism. When choosing your interview outfit make sure to dress for the position you are interviewing for.

Tips for Women:

Suits are the most professional choice for an interview. A black "power" suit is a must for any business professional and is a great basic to get now for future interviews and employment.

I have to admit ladies, I didn't have a suit to my name until 7 months ago. It has been hard (and costly) to start building my professional wardrobe. The best advice I can give is START EARLY! When you see suit sales, check them out. You can find some really cute ones, I promise!

Shoes should be closed-toed with heels from 1 to 2 inches. They should also be cleaned and polished.

I know that I really don't need to mention this, but make sure your hair and nails look nice, that you don't go overboard with makeup and jewelry, and you smell nice:) I always make sure that my perfume is a very light one, that is hardly noticeable.

Tips for Men

A nice suit in black, gray, or navy is a great choice.

The absolute best choice for an interview shirt, is a plain white straight collar shirt. Pinstripes are acceptable, but white is more traditional. An round neck undershirt is a must.

Choose a tie that compliments your suit and shows your personality(within limits). Do not wear ties with animals/sporting symbols.

Shoes should be either black or brown, depending on suit choice. Make sure they are clean and polished. Socks should compliment your suit.


Just remember to err on the side of conservative when dressing for an interview. You never know what your interviewer is looking for in an employee. Remember also, when you are hired, you can observe what people in your field are wearing and change your dress accordingly.

Good luck!